Interesting Observations from the Red-Wedding Bombs.

There will come a time in your life when you suddenly receive a lot of wedding invitations (call it the Red-Wedding Bombs). This phase naturally occurs when say the girls from your school batch have reached a "must-marry-age" or "must-go-lelong-sale-age" (just kidding).

This time has arrived for me too!. There are also a few interesting observations i noticed.

1) All of a sudden, ex-classmates who never bothered to attend any class renuions suddenly start to appear like 3-6mths prior to their wedding date.

2) All of a sudden, ex-classmates whom you have lost contact for a long time start to call you suddenly and strike a very warm phone conversation with you (as if you two were on very good terms since time has begun).

Of course, quite frankly at this juncture, this post is NOT to ridicule my classmates who are or have married. Deep down my heart, i am very happy for them. Because finally, they have grown from little girls to grown up wives. Because finally, they have found someone to pamper and take care of them.

This post is meant as a sound alert to notify you that perhaps it is better not to burn/abandon your bridges prematurely Don't neglect your friends because 1) your time is totally taken up by the other half or 2) you are pissed busy at work. Neglecting your friends like that will actually not be wise because when the big day arrives, you have to scramble like crazy to cosy up all the old friends just to ensure there are indeed people who will turn up and fill up the tables at your wedding.

Oh well, but of course, if you are a bride/groom to be and you read this post, take it with a pinch of salt. Peace.. Peace.. Shalom.. Shalom...