I heard a few thought provoking lines this week. I just thought of sharing it with you. The 1st line i heard was, "妈妈要有高的EQ来对待孩子,而爸爸要做什么呢?就是要好好善待妈妈,让她拥有高EQ". (From a Married mother with 2 kids)
In English, it means Mums need to be equipped with HIGH EQ to treat their kids while the role of the Dad is to LOVE the mum and ensure she has HIGH EQ.
When i 1st heard this statement, i was speechless. How often do the guys just start to take their partners for granted? How often do couples quarrel because the woman feels that she is NO longer loved by her husband?
The 2nd memorable line i heard today was from Cindy. "Ladies should learn to COOK not because it is the WOMAN's ROLE to cook after marriage. But it is an incentive when once in a while e.g. a special occasion, the woman tells her hubby that she is making home-cooked food. The guy will look forward to go home to taste the home cooked food." (FROM A SINGLE WOMAN)
Then i also heard a 3rd memorable line from Jolyn. "Andrew, do not ever ever pamper a woman too much because she will take you for granted." (FROM AN ATTACHED WOMAN).
The 4th memorable line was from Elaine, "When you train your domestic pets (e.g. dogs) always make sure that in the process of training it, you show who is the MASTER." (FROM A ROM-ED LADY)
Wow.. In a span of one week, i heard several wisdom of truth from a married mother with 2 children, a ROM-ed woman, a single woman and an attached woman. Although the sample size is not sufficient, i see a distinct level of expectation for each category of women. Well i shall not elaborate further. Just your own imagination.... lol lol
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